When I started this blog several years ago, I was by no means a guru. Just a guy with a laptop and no audience writing about women as I learned about and experienced them. Fast forward a few years later, and I suppose I have become somewhat of a “guru” now; I have been writing for Girls Chase for over a year and a half, writing for Return Of Kings, and created two dating products for highly intelligent men (because I know how we tend to struggle with social interactions, and the need to learn this stuff).
The first product is my book, Straight To Sex, which is selling daily and I have gotten nothing but positive feedback from readers. The second is How To Escape The Friendzone Forever, my audio course for guys just starting down this particular path. I never in my wildest dreams saw myself doing this semi-professionally, but here I am and on the next level.
Throughout my journey, I’ve had to opportunity to meet and speak with some of the biggest names in this community, and throughout our conversations, I realized something:
We are all basically doing the same thing, and explaining it in different ways.
Some people are more tactical and some are more natural, but the interactions don’t look wildly different overall and all follow the same general trajectory. This is great news to the beginner: you will eventually reach this point, though you may understand it differently than myself or someone else.
We are all doing what works for us, and then after explaining it well enough for other guys to replicate our results, then we show the system to others. I say this to point out that it can be very tempting to go from one guru to another, reading various books and watching various channels, but really…just stick with something and keep doing it, and you will eventually get it.
You will probably end up learning it one step at a time, failing thousands of times more than you succeed. Everybody good at this fails exponentially more than they succeed when we first started learning and that’s the only way to get it.
Personally, I believe that once you have the fast-closing process down–meaning the very last step of the entire seduction process–the rest becomes very easy. Almost like autopilot, because when you know what process to lead a woman towards, the right words and behavior just kind of come out of you and you just make small course-corrections along the way, according to the particular dynamic between yourself and the woman you’re dancing with.
In fact, closing back at your place is such an important process that I spent years of my life honing a system that I brought from city to city, state to state, all across the country over the last decade. I moved so much that I had to make sure that my system will work anywhere, and eventually I distilled the core principles of what I do and how I do it.
I started teaching it to other guys around the apartments where I lived (wherever it was that year) and realized that I’d really communicated the ideas in a way that resonates with people. One guy even started calling me “Pops” because he said he “wished his Dad had taught him this stuff!”
I detail not only the exact process, but also the concepts and ideas behind the steps, in my book Straight To Sex. It is everything I taught the “Pops” guy, plus a ton more insight into the actual mechanics of what women are thinking when they come over to your house for the first time.
They are really not that complicated once you understand them, and I have never seen any material that gets even close (besides my own). If you want to improve your close rate, lead the interaction better and learn how to get laid at your place, then click this link to go Straight To Sex today!